Can you get your ex back when they are with someone else?

Can you get your ex back when they are with someone else?

After all is said and done, you are free, and you may demonstrate this to everyone. Your ex will become aware of it as well, because they will notice the adjustments you've made right away (including all the things you were scared of doing while you were scared of losing them). An ex in a new relationship will discover what a wonderful person you are. Even if they think you're stupid for walking out, or that you're not good enough for them anymore, there's always a chance that they could change their mind.

Sometimes people do come back, but only if you give them a real reason to. If you just want your ex back because you're afraid of being alone, then you shouldn't expect him or her to return. However, if you can find a way to make yourself more important than ever before, or at least equal, then you might be able to convince your ex to break up with their new partner once again.

Of course, this all depends on how important you think you are, and why they broke up in the first place. If getting back together was never an option for either of you, then there's no use in trying. All you can do is move on with your life.

Do ex-lovers come back after they’ve moved on?

Now, we're not claiming that exes return just because you've moved on. That is not the case. Exes resurface after you've moved on, no longer care about them, live a self-sufficient, happy life, and couldn't care less if they're alone or with someone else. This is such a powerful frame of mind to be in. You should try it sometime!

The fact is that people stay in relationships for various reasons. Sometimes the reason isn't good, but rather bad timing. Maybe one person needs to go through a major change in their life to become ready for a relationship, while the other hasn't yet found what they're looking for elsewhere.

Sometimes the reason is good, but rather short-lived. Maybe one person wants to take things slowly and see where they go, while the other craves a more serious involvement.

And sometimes the reason is so good that it justifies any distance between them. Maybe one person is ready to start a family, while the other doesn't want to get married or have children yet. Or maybe one person wants to focus on their career, while the other supports them in this endeavor.

No matter the reason, when two people decide to end their relationship, they also decide how they're going to feel about each other later on. Will they still love each other?

Why do ex-lovers come back when they see you with someone else?

Exes typically return after dating someone else when they: go all-in on their current relationship purely because it feels good (impulsive conduct); rebound (still have feelings for their ex); and realize they took their ex's excellent attributes for granted since they concentrated on the bad ones. Exes should never be taken lightly or seen as anything less than a friend, no matter how hard they try to hurt your feelings by showing up with someone new.

Former lovers can sometimes cause more damage than good for a recovering person, but that doesn't mean they aren't worth getting back into shape for. They just require more time and attention than other friends. If you're in a new relationship and feeling pain from your ex, take the time to understand why you still feel them around you before trying to get over them again.

Loving someone else now means they don't hold any power over you anymore, which is an important part of healing from past relationships. Even if your ex hasn't changed, you need to let them go if you want to move on with your life.

Why do exes come back into your life?

Many ex-lovers will return when they discover you were a wonderful person who cared. They'll understand what they've lost and strive to return because they miss the love and attention you've shown them. They are feeling lonely. People will sometimes reappear in your life because they recall how they didn't feel alone when they were with you. This is why exes come back into your life; to show you that they weren't so bad after all.

An ex's return doesn't necessarily mean that you should take them back. Sometimes, even though an ex knows what they've lost, they can't or won't let go. In this case, it may be best to cut them out of your life completely. Don't expect anything from an ex who has hurt you again. Let them know that you're done by simply not responding to their calls or texts. You should also tell friends and family about your ex so that no one else gets caught up in the drama.

Exes come back into our lives for several reasons. Sometimes we realize that we are still in love with them and want to get back together. Other times we realize that we aren't ready to move on yet and need some time to process what happened before moving forward. Still others return because they have realized their mistakes and want to win you over again.

Whether you should accept an ex back into your life is something only you can decide.

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Christi Peoples

Christi Peoples is an accomplished relationship counsellor. Her work with couples, families and individuals has been recognized by her peers and she has received prestigious awards for excellence in counselling skills. Christi also volunteers at a local shelter where she teaches children about healthy relationships and how to deal with trauma through play therapy sessions.

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