Can you like someone while getting over someone else?

Can you like someone while getting over someone else?

It's normal to question if you'll ever get over your ex following a breakup. When you've fallen in love with someone new after a lot of tears and long baths, it's natural to question if it's okay to still have some old sentiments. It is very possible to be in love with your current boo while still harboring feelings for your ex.

If you're questioning whether or not you can still love both people in your life at the same time, then the answer is yes. However, this situation requires work on your part to ensure that you don't become enmeshed with your current boyfriend or girlfriend. If you aren't careful, you may find yourself completely lost in the wake of your breakup.

Being in love with two people at once isn't easy. You will need to give each relationship its own space and time because being able to do this will help you move forward with your life following a breakup.

Is it hard to get over an ex when you live with them?

When you live with your ex, it may appear to be much more difficult to get over them, especially if you did not want the relationship to end in the first place. While it is normal to feel some amount of pain after breaking up with someone, if you still feel sad or miss your ex every day, then you should consider seeing a therapist.

If you and your ex decided to end things badly, then obviously you will feel some amount of pain from this experience. However, if you let go of the past too soon, then you are likely to keep suffering mentally. You might find that even though you no longer love your ex, you still have feelings for them. This can make it hard to move on with your life.

If you and your ex were together for a long time and had a strong emotional connection, then breaking up is going to be very difficult. Even after one week has passed, you might still feel depressed or anxious whenever you think about what happened. This is normal, as losing love feels like losing part of yourself. However, if you fail to move on quickly enough, then you are likely to suffer from depression or anxiety later in life.

The only way to overcome the challenges that come with ending a relationship is by moving on.

Can a rebound relationship help you get over an ex?

Recent study, dating back to 2014, reveals that engaging into a rebound relationship might help your ex get over you and feel more secure. This contradicts everything you've been taught since you were a child. In general, engaging into a rebound relationship might be one of the most effective strategies to get over a split.

Despite the fact that each tale is unique, the same reasons frequently apply to why you want your ex-girlfriend back after you've broken up with her. When a relationship ends, we frequently mistakenly believe (incorrectly) that the person who made the decision is content, that they are smiling, and that their life is full of sunshine and rainbows. This is far from the truth!

How do you get over a guy who broke your heart?

Psychologists' Advice on How to Get Over a Broken Heart

  1. Allow yourself to feel your feelings.
  2. But don’t become your feelings.
  3. Cut off communication with your ex.
  4. Find a support system.
  5. Exercise.
  6. Remember what sucked.
  7. Take care of yourself.
  8. Don’t judge the length of your healing process.

How to get over someone you love after a breakup?

If you've never had a relationship with that person, or if you've never even dated them, head over to my post on how to get over unrequited love. You're in mourning after a breakup. You simply want to go into a corner and cry yourself to sleep. You're likely to be profoundly hurt. Your heart is broken, and it will take time to heal.

The way you get over someone you love after a breakup is by getting over them. It may help knowing that they didn't leave you; they were forced out. They didn't want to break up with you; they just didn't feel the same way about you as you do about them. Maybe one day you'll find another person who makes you feel the same way again, but for now you have to move on.

If you've been dumped, your first thought might not be how you're going to get over them; it might be how can I make them miss me again? The truth is that they don't want to see you anymore. Dumping you was a terrible thing to do, but sometimes people grow apart and need space. When they come back around they usually start off by apologizing and then ask you out again. If this happens and you still love them, then you should say yes.

Getting over someone you love after a breakup is difficult but possible. Give yourself time, and remember that they did the breaking up too.

Can you fall in love with the same person all over again?

People make errors in the past, but it is advisable to continue in your "another new relationship" if you are unwilling to forgive or change. I can tell you from personal experience that it is possible to fall in love with the same person over and again.

Remember, as precisely as possible, why you fell out of love. If your love was cut short due to time, location, or circumstances, you may be able to start up where they left off. You want a solid reason to fall back in love, since there was probably a good reason you dropped out of it in the first place.

Can you get over someone if they are dating someone else?

A buddy once told me that the best way to tell whether he's over an ex is to see if it would upset him if they were seeing someone else. I've never gotten over somebody in my life using that rationale. But it's pretty good advice for figuring out how you feel about someone.

Here's how it works: If you're still mad at them even though they're with someone else, then you haven't moved on. On the other hand, if you accept them as part of their new life then you can always move on yourself. It's up to you which direction you want to go in.

It's important to remember that if someone has broken your heart then they will always have a place in it. You may not want to admit this now but you'll probably come around in time. In the meantime, be kind to yourself and don't compare your pain to others'.

Looking back, I think my friend was trying to help me move on by giving me a fake hope that something might one day happen between myself and my ex. But there's no use wishing for something that won't ever happen; you should only do things that you believe will lead to a happy ending.

In conclusion, yes you can get over someone if they are dating someone else. It just takes time for everything to calm down inside you.

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Janet Guyton

Janet Guyton is a therapist with extensive career whose approach focuses on identifying patterns in behavior so that individuals can understand how their actions affect others, which leads them towards better self-awareness and more fulfilling relationships with those around them.

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