Do you think your husband is having an affair?

I've met ladies who were convinced their husbands were having affairs for years, but they also thought they were being too jealous or reading too much into things. They began to mistrust themselves. Then one day their husband comes home and tells them he's going to file for divorce.

She was devastated and didn't know what to do or how she had caused this to happen. She kept asking herself, "Why would he go through all the trouble of having an affair if he wasn't completely obsessed with someone else?"

Eventually she came to realize that none of us are perfect and we make mistakes. At first she wanted to blame everything on his infidelity, but then she started to see that there were other reasons why he might have left her. After all, he was a human being too. He made mistakes just like she had. Now when she thinks about it, she knows that her husband was never actually faithful to her.

She finally has peace about the matter and doesn't worry about him anymore. He's gone so she can put her life back together and move on.

If you're wondering whether or not your husband is having an affair, then the answer is yes. All men aren't always faithful to their wives.

How many wives think their husbands are cheating?

"More than half of all males have cheated in a love relationship," Dr. Oz claims. Attempting to reestablish trust after an affair appears to be difficult. Thirty percent of the ladies in his audience believed their husbands were lying about adultery. Not everyone was certain.

Emotional responses to questions might indicate cheating and lying. If you approach your spouse about your suspicions that he's having an affair and he becomes furious, defensive, or emotionally overreacts, it's a clue that something is wrong. Driver further stated that dishonest spouses tend to chuckle uncomfortably or accuse their women.

What should a man do if his wife has an affair?

Here are some things a male may do when confronted with a cheating wife. When his wife has an affair, a man's initial inclination may be to blame himself. After all, if he hadn't been so [insert in the blank] or if he had been more [fill in the blank], she wouldn't have wandered.

The truth is that no one is perfect. Even if your spouse says they're not going out, they may still be seeing someone else. It's up to you to ask questions and find out if anything is happening between them and their new partner. If there is, you may need to consider whether or not you want to stay married to this person.

If you think that you might be able to work through this issue together, then it's time to have a conversation with her. Tell her how much her infidelity hurts you and that you want things to be different but that you also need to know that she's still hers even though she has betrayed you. Suggest some couples counseling together if that will help her see how much she means to you and you can only hope that she feels the same way about you.

Finally, be sure to keep yourself busy while you wait for your wife to come back home. Shopping, dining out, visiting friends-- these are just some of the many ways you can pass the time until she returns.

Do you feel like your partner is having an emotional affair?

Feelings that your partner is having an emotional affair are entirely subjective, yet our views are molded by our pasts. If someone was emotionally unavailable in your previous relationship, then it's not surprising if they don't make the effort now. However, just because a past partner wasn't physically available to you, that doesn't mean they weren't thinking about you and feeling sad/mad/relieved about things.

An emotional affair occurs when one person tries to fulfill their need for love and attention from another person through email, texting, or some other means. Often, people think that emotional affairs only happen between married individuals, but this is not true at all. Any type of relationship can experience this issue - it's just that most emotional affairs start out as physical affairs - i.e., bed hopping- before moving on to other forms of contact.

People have different needs when it comes to intimacy, so it's normal to want to satisfy those needs elsewhere if the primary relationship isn't working out. If you're feeling like your partner is having an emotional affair, take time to think about what might be causing these feelings. It could be something as simple as not hearing from them every day enough for your liking, or it could be something more serious like they're involved with someone else.

About Article Author

Cindy Litton

Cindy Litton is a relationship counsellor with a degree in psychology. She has been counselling for five years and her experience ranges from individual to couples therapy, as well as providing support for those experiencing emotional distress. Cindy's passion lies in helping others identify their strengths and weaknesses so they can act on them, and be in more fulfilling relationships.