How do I tell my ex I'm still in love with her?

How do I tell my ex I'm still in love with her?

1. Start with comedy to get her smiling and laughing. Then inform her. No matter how bad things are between you and your ex, a little touch of humor will typically take the bite out of the negative thoughts she has about you and allow her to open up enough for you to re-attract her and get her back.

2. Be honest and direct. It's best if you can be straight with her from the beginning because then there won't be any room for confusion or misunderstanding. Explain that you still love her even though she hurt you by leaving you and you don't think you can live without her in your life. Ask her to give you another chance and see where it leads.

3. Don't expect her to change her mind and come back to you immediately. She may feel like she made a mistake leaving you and wants to fix it. But if you push her too hard/fast/aggressively then she'll only shut you out further and you might end up breaking her heart as well. So be patient and don't force the issue.

4. Keep in contact with her after she broke up with you. Send her flowers every week or month just to let her know you're thinking of her and that you want her to get back into your life. Tell her how much you miss talking to her and sharing your ideas with her. Remind her how much you loved being together even when things were bad and ask her to give you another chance.

What should I do if my girlfriend is still talking to her ex?

Take her to a quiet spot and ask her how she feels about the ex in her own words. Don't ask her sarcastically or jealously. Ask her when she's smiling. Allow her to reconnect with her ex if she expresses a desire to do so. Only then can you move on.

She may not want to talk about it, but as long as there's still affection between you two, she'll feel comfortable enough to open up to you.

If you think there's still hope for your relationship, try to focus on the positive aspects of her ex. Maybe he was just too young for her? Perhaps he had some good qualities you weren't aware of? There are always two sides to every story, and you shouldn't judge or criticize either one of them without knowing all the facts.

If you really want to know what's going on in her mind, you'll have to sneak into her bedroom while she sleeps and read her diary. But be careful - if her ex wrote bad things about you, she might get angry and stop speaking to you.

The only way to find out for sure is by listening to what she has to say. If she wants to forget him then that's fine with you; you shouldn't hold any grudges.

Is it OK to tell your ex how you feel?

You should only inform your ex about your feelings for her if you have first reactivated some of her sentiments of respect and desire for you. So simply informing her that you have affections for her will not be enough to get her back. You need to show her that you are still interested in getting back together by doing something romantic or taking an action that tells her that you haven't changed.

The most effective way of telling someone that you have feelings for them is through actions. If you make a point to show her that you are still the same person that had feelings for her even after she broke up with you, then there is a good chance that she will once again start to feel the same way about you.

So go out of your way to stay in touch with her friends and family, take her out on dates, and do whatever it takes to prove to her that you have not changed and that you are still the same guy who used to love her.

It is also important to remember that while telling her how you feel is essential, showing her that you are still the same person who used to love her is even more so. So do everything you can to remain consistent in your behavior for her so that she does not change her mind again.

What to do when your ex is attracted to you again?

So, rather than spending a lot of time when you're talking with your ex going over what went wrong in the relationship (which will simply keep reminding her of the things that turned her off in the first place), use that time to build new, positive memories in her mind by making her laugh and smile. This will help change her perception of you and show her that you're not the same person that caused her pain in the past.

It's important to note that when your ex is ready to move on, she will let you know. However, if he or she continues to act inappropriately toward you, it may be time to put some distance between you so that you don't cause any more damage to your relationship.

Should you tell your ex that you still have feelings for her?

Whether she doesn't have many or any feelings for you right now, she won't care if you have feelings for her. So, it's best to avoid the subject.

It's important to be clear about what you want from an ex. If you just want them to like you again, then telling them that you still have feelings for them wouldn't be a good idea. However, if you want more from them than just another shot at friendship, then revealing your true feelings could help get there. For example, if they know that you'd really love to see them naked again, then they might feel more inclined to let bygones be bygones and become friends once more.

The most effective way of getting back together with an ex is by showing them that you've changed and are willing to move on. This could mean doing something nice for them, such as sending them a text message to say hello or thanking them for something that they did for you.

If you had an affair with your ex, then obviously you have feelings for them. But that doesn't mean that you need to tell them immediately after coming clean with your own issues. Give them time to realize how much you've changed before reaching out to them.

How do I deal with my ex-girlfriend's return?

Let's get started:

  1. Establish Who Broke Up With Who.
  2. Learn WHY Your Ex-Girlfriend Broke Up With You.
  3. Spend Some Time Apart.
  4. Improve Your Conveyed Confidence And Vibe.
  5. Attract Her Back Without Contacting Her.
  6. Re-establish Contact In An Attractive Way.
  7. Hang Out With Your Ex-Girlfriend Face-to-Face.

How do I talk to my ex when she has a boyfriend?

The greatest strategy to interact with your ex now that she has a new partner (and you want her back) is to do the following:

  1. Flirt and joke around with her as though she is still your girlfriend.
  2. Don’t ask too many questions about the new guy.
  3. Talk about the progress you’re making with your life purpose.
  4. Bring up old, private jokes.

About Article Author

Yvette Hill

Yvette Hill is a relationship counsellor with a degree in psychology and over 10 years of experience helping others through life's difficulties. Yvette specializes in relationships, children, and families. She has written several books on the topics of parenting and marriage as well as giving lectures to parents at conferences about these topics.

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