Be nice and gentle, and concentrate on expressing yourself to him. Then, when he gets it perfect, say something like, "Yes, I love that," or "A bit softer, a little slower." Or, even better, transmit it through pleasurable noises. Men are always looking for new ways to delight you. Then, keep reinforcing your positive feedback structure.
If you want to learn more about men and their needs, check out the book He's Not Just Mine...He's Yours! by John Gray. It's a great guide to help you understand how a man thinks and acts, and what makes him happy.
Now, go have fun!
4 POWERFULLY SIMPLE TRICKS TO MAKING HIM FEEL LIKE A KING
Here are some ideas about how to:
8 Ways to Express Your Love to Your Partner
Stand closer to him, chuckle while touching his arm, and sweep your hair to one side, exposing your neck. These seemingly insignificant deeds convey a great deal. Remember that we communicate 90% of the time through body language. So, utilize your physique to entice him. [Read: How to Create Sexual Tension with a Guy in Order for Him to Make a Move] Don't procrastinate. The more you wait, the harder it will be to impress him. Put yourself out there by doing something spontaneous (but not too spontaneous).
If you want men to desire you, you have to give them reason to. That means doing things that make them want to be around you. Do things that make him go "wow." Spontaneity is always appreciated, but don't go crazy. Balance is key here. Men like women who know their value and aren't afraid to show it. It also helps if you aren't too expensive or easy to get rid of. A few tips: If he doesn't respond to your first couple of moves, don't take it personally. Many men are slow to react at first before they finally come around. Just keep trying new things until you find what works. Also, remember that actions speak louder than words. In other words, the way you act towards him will tell him much more about your intentions than what you say.
Finally, be confident but not obnoxious. Most men love a woman who knows her own mind and isn't afraid to show it. At the same time, be willing to compromise.
Ten Ways to Teach Your Man to Love You Correctly.
To assist you out, read How a Man Falls in Love.