When you're with them, you sense a pleasant vibe, a higher vibration. In a relationship, the energy, or "vibe," you feel around someone is significant. In their company, you let go of your ego. You don't feel the need to prove yourself, to exhibit just your best side, to dazzle or control. With them, you feel comfortable being yourself, without fear of rejection or disapproval. Your heart knows when it finds the right person, even before your mind agrees. This is how you know you have found your soul mate.
The feeling is very real and undeniable. It is like an electric current flowing through your body. You just know when you find this special person, there's no going back.
You know you've found your soul mate when you see her/him every day and nothing else matters because you know that you understand each other in a way that no one else can. You share the same thoughts and dreams. You feel connected at the heart. You have the same values. You enjoy the same activities. And most important, you feel safe with him/her. They make you feel secure and confident. They create a world of their own where only they exist. Where nobody else matters but the two of you.
Your heart knows what it is talking about. So trust it, and follow its advice!
Keep this individual. You're with the wrong person if you feel jealously, anger, hatred, fear, agony, embarrassment, and so on every time you're with them. The right person will make you feel comfortable in your own skin and help you grow into your best self.
The way to know if you're supposed to be together is simple: if you love them, let them go. If they don't love you back then there's nothing wrong with saying goodbye. Sometimes the pain of losing someone you love is too much to bear, and you have to walk away. No one can tell you when or how to cut them out of your life, only you can do that. But if they've hurt you, it's okay to hurt back. That's what being true to yourself means.
The most important thing is that you know what you're willing to accept in a relationship. Are you looking for someone who completes you or are you looking for someone who fits you? It may not be easy to say goodbye but sometimes we need to release negative people from our lives. They may not want anything to do with you anymore but that doesn't mean they weren't good for you.
In any case, remember that everyone you meet does you some good and some harm.
You're both paying careful attention to one another. If you're both feeling a mutual connection, you'll be highly aware of what the other person is doing and if anything changes with them. Because they tempt you, you will notice everything about the other person. They appeal to your senses and it's easy for things to become heated up quickly.
The feeling is mutual when there is an attraction between two people. It may not be strong at first but eventually grows as they get to know each other better. You'll feel it when someone draws you towards them and you want to go further. This show of interest from them leads you to want to return the gesture so that you can see where this goes.
It's not just about physical appearance either. The feeling is mutual comes in many forms and shapes. Someone may seem like their perfect match online but in reality they're alone waiting for the same person to come along who appeals to their mind as well as their heart.
When you feel the feeling mutual you should try not to rush into anything because that doesn't lead to good results. Take your time and see how things develop over a longer period of time. Trust your instincts; if something feels wrong, then it probably is!
Finally, remember to have fun! Life should be taken seriously but also seen as a game.
You feel tied to one other in this relationship, often quite unexpectedly and strangely. You keep in touch via communicating and conversing on a regular basis, as well as visiting and spending time together whenever feasible. This relationship swiftly rises to the top of your priority list, if not the most important relationship in your life. You believe that you were meant to meet one another forever in past lives and that there is a purpose behind your union.
Destiny relationships are those that come into our lives for a reason, that occupy our minds and hearts forever, and always bring us closer to the person at the center of it all. If you are feeling like you have found your true love, then congratulations! There are many signs that will help you understand if your relationship is indeed a part of your destiny.
First and foremost, you would both agree that this is a loving relationship. You trust one another completely and have no doubts about the other's intentions. You look forward to being with this person every day and wouldn't want to spend any moment of the day without them. Also, you feel comfortable being yourself around this person, without fear of rejection or disapproval. Finally, this relationship feels right. It has no negative effects on you and doesn't cause you to worry about anything or anyone else. All these signs point towards a relationship that is meant to be forever.
1. You are comfortable being yourself with each other. "It's a wonderful indicator of things to come if you're in a relationship where you feel you can be honest about how you feel and your partner is able to hear it, support you, and be vulnerable themselves," said marriage and family therapist Jon-Paul Bird. If you don't feel comfortable being yourself around him or her, look elsewhere.
2. You feel safe enough to express your needs. "If you feel like you can tell your partner what you need and get help with it, then this relationship has a chance at success," said Dr. Pepperberg. That means telling your boyfriend or girlfriend that you want them to talk more often or let them know when you need time alone.
3. You enjoy his or her company even when you aren't in the mood. "If you find yourself looking forward to seeing your partner even when you don't feel like it, then you have found a good relationship," said Dr. Pepperberg.
4. You feel like you can trust him or her. "Trust is one of those things that cannot be forced. It must be earned through action not just words," said Dr. Pepperberg. So if you feel like your boyfriend or girlfriend is keeping secrets from you or doesn't trust you, look elsewhere.
5. You feel like you can talk to him or her about anything.
You will know if what you are experiencing with your spouse is chemistry or pure love if you can tell the difference.