When does your boyfriend go AWOL on social media?

Many of your friends "like" it when you publish how beautiful your boyfriend is or a nice pair selfie, but your boyfriend appears to disappear during such moments. Instead of "liking" and responding with some affection for you in return, he sits mute, as if he doesn't want people to know he's in a relationship. 8. Your boyfriend goes AWOL on social media whenever you share something private with your friends.

He might not have liked one of your recent conversations you had over text or phone, for example, so he decided to hide from view. Sometimes we all need time alone, away from each other but still connected. Taking time apart allows us to think more clearly and move forward with our relationships stronger.

When do you know your boyfriend is about to end the relationship?

When your lover stops addressing significant topics, you'll know he's going to terminate the relationship. Maybe he planned a vacation but didn't tell you, so you find out when he writes about it on Instagram or a common friend discusses it. Perhaps he still talks about her sometimes but not around you anymore. If she knows what's good for her, she'll keep her distance.

Your guy is probably afraid that if he tells you something is ending, then it will end. He doesn't want to lose you so he keeps quiet until he can get away from you both. It's not your job to worry about him; you should be happy that he hasn't dumped you yet!

The most important thing is that you understand what's happening in his head. Does he need time by himself? Is he looking for a new relationship? Are you just not his type? Only he can answer these questions for himself but if you take away his silence, there's no way of knowing what he really thinks.

He may have just found someone else who isn't as understanding or honest with themselves and their partners. This other woman/man might try to change him or force him to stay with them even though he doesn't want to. She/he could be the reason why he has stopped talking to you.

What should I do if my boyfriend is on a dating site?

If your partner has an online dating profile, it might be time to discuss your relationship. The issue is that there are two varieties of jealousy: healthy and ill-tempered, and they manifest in various ways. Some examples can help you grasp the distinctions and which one you have. Healthy jealousy feels good because it means you care about your love interest's happiness. They may even want to bring this out in you by having an "ill-tempered" reaction, like yelling or going on a rant, so you know what needs to be changed about your partnership.

When unhealthy jealousy strikes, it can be quite a disturbing experience for everyone involved. You might feel afraid to leave your partner alone with another woman because you fear something bad will happen to them, while they may feel threatened by your previous relationships and think you're trying to steal their own people back from them. This kind of jealousy can lead to some ugly fights between you both. Of course, it's important to remember that neither you nor your partner is at fault here; it's just how our brains are built. But knowing what type of jealousy you are dealing with will help you understand why it is happening and what you can do to make things better.

If you suspect your partner is seeing other people, ask them directly.

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Elizabeth Nunez

Elizabeth Nunez has been a licensed therapist for over 20 years and specializes in working with people who are struggling in their relationships. She is committed to helping her clients cultivate the skills they need to heal from old wounds, establish healthy boundaries, and create safe places where they can be themselves without fear of judgement or rejection.